The title of this post may seem like "a no-brainer" but it's not for majority of the human population. Not because we're not smart, it's just something we at times feel others have the obligation in doing so.
Talking about it out loud makes sense, but in your mind days ago, months ago, years ago you were looking for a certain someone to fulfill your happiness. When in fact that's OUR job. We have got take ownership about HAPPINESS people! In my Iyanla Vanzant ::voice:: "Call a thing a thing people!!!" If you don't know where I got that from, watch her show on OWN Fix My Life.
One major thing that I learned from the book The Mastery of Love is that we must be responsible for our part. Our part being whatever we give. Us. Our happiness
You should never put such great responsibility on others to make YOU happy.
I leave you with this quote from the book...
"If you take your happiness & put it in someone's hands, sooner or later, (s)he is going to break it. If you give your happiness to someone else, (s)he can always take it away. Then if happiness can only come from inside of you & is the result of your love, you are responsible for our own happiness"