A Support System...Share Your Story

I miss having a strong support system...

People that actually care

Want to see you succeed

Want the best for you

TRULY love you...

A lot of people don't reciprocate what I do for them in return

Luckily I study the word. 

He made ME this way

I will not change because something is NOT being given back in return

I refuse to be selfish

I have my moments

But overall, that's not me...

I'm definitely putting it out there in the universe...praying on it.

God deliver the type of people I can learn something with.

Can correct me & share their wisdom.

That keep YOU first in their lives

Has had trials & tribulations...

REAL...

Many are afraid to own up to real life situations..

Being cheated on

Dropping out of school

Having a degree & stuck at home with parents

Suffering from depression

Not living their purpose

Struggling

This is not to say be happy or excited about these things

But be HONEST...OPEN

Why feel sorry?

Share your story!

You may inspire & uplift someone in the midst of your storm

What's your story?

Random: Thoughts

I'm done counting on people. It's hard to just erase or remove what you're so use to.
People don't reciprocate a lot things these days. I'm so use to being the giver that it's the norm & people seem to think I'm stupid enough to continue to allow it to happen.


I will not be going out of my way to do anything for anyone.
I will not think someone will even think about helping me out, or doing me a favor.
Everyone is so use to wanting, and others doing for them that they think it should always be that way...
How I feel goes for everything in my life right now.
This is my hiatus from being the nice me. I'm just going to be neutral and that's that.
Taking 5 steps back & watch everything in slow motion.

Controversial with no chaser.

Everything that will be posted below is from my mini-rant I had on my personal twitter account. What triggered it? A girlfriend. Or as I should say ex girlfriend of a known college basketball player. She was on a mini-rant via twitter about love, relationship etc. So, it had be revisit my feelings on a situation (women who date/d fraternity guys). There's a lot that comes with the territory if he's an undergrad in college & some don't grow out of that college life & what comes with it. Anyways in quotations is what I tweeted.
(The picture to the right, I do not own. http://stores.alphatomega.net/)


"It amazes me how male athletes, entertainers, baller$, frat guys will let a good woman slip away."
"Everyone sees it but them (the hims). She doesn't want you for your money, letters, but for you!"
"I don't get it."
"We ain't perfect. But dealing with you & the groupies is a task. Oh well..."
"Not to say their not good (boyfriends). Because obviously that's the case (Since we dated them). But the ending results. Yea."


-someone chimes in-
"RT me: Everyone sees it but them (the hims). She doesn't want you for your money, letters, but for you! (One of my followers says): yes girl...say it"


"A certain associate of a college known ball player sparked my rant. We get looked at as the "bad guys" when we hurt from the aftermath."
"You don't know our situation so have a seat. & to the homewreckers. Good luck. Because not everybody is nice ::shrug:: lol"
"I know chicks from all categories I mentioned that had been holding their man down for 4+ yrs."
"I'm so lowkey when it comes to my personal/love life. No one knew who I was dating. All you needed to know was that he treated me well.."
"Loved me for me & supported me in all shapes & forms."


-There was a gentlemen who was Greek (fraternity) that would chime in & give his opinion, that led to responses like...
"Like I've said before. No one knows but those in the situation. An explanation does little justice"


Sigh...

My Services Aren't For FREE!

So, I've come to conclusion that I'm done doing things for people only to be looked over, forgotten or not paid with respect. Therefore, I'll be charging folks. It seems like when you set rules ABOVE the boundaries, and not expect anything, things run smoothly. 


The free service that I will only give is working in my community (other communities). But as far as helping an upcoming grown person, in whatever it is, I'm charging.


It annoys me when people act like I don't have a life, and I'm here for them 24/7
Last time I checked, I wasn't getting paid for that. & I don't have a job yet? Yes. Ashley is in BUSINESS.


I say this because there have been occurring events with individuals thinking because we're cool or that I should do something for free for them. But what do I get in the ending? NOTHING. I would be a sucker. Just like everyone else is on their grind, so am I. So I'm stopping people in their tracks now.


END Rant...