This post isn't to back track on that journey...I'm over it & I'm in a new place.
A place where I'm comfortable where I am at, where I'm headed. So comfortable that I wish him the best, I want him to be happy even if it's not with me. We just weren't meant to be. I mean, what can I say? If you want to know what I mean by ALL of this, please take the time & check out the few past posts I've talked about regarding all of this. Like... Old Post: The breakup...It's over now, Old Post: Falling In Love Again, They do tell a small piece of my life/relationship.
Anyways, I'm in a better place now. I'm very surprised & happy about this. I use to ask my sister (close girlfriend of mine) "When will I get over him?"...Her: "I know how you feel honey, it's hard & it will take time. There's no real answer to that"...she was right about that. She's still dealing with a breakup she had a year ago. I mean...how do you get over someone you loved so dearly & saw a future with so easily? It's just not easy. But what I can say now is that I'm at peace with it. No, I'm not totally OVER him. But I think, the biggest part is over with.
I owe all the praise & thanks to God, Because He only knows how difficult & impatient I am.
time & patience will mend a broken heart :) I just went through a breakup in jan also & im finally starting to feel a little bit better about it. Just like you im totally not over him, but i will be someday
ReplyDeleteI went back to read the two other stories before finishing this one. I am glad you are doing much better. i am sure its only going to get even better :)
ReplyDeleteI know it hard, but like to others said, it just takes time & patience. I broke up in January (must be something about January) and had a REALLY hard time, because he was NOT the man I thought he was. He's called-Mr. Unavailable. Now, I'm over him (still morning every now and again), but it is time to reflect back to ME and make ME better. This is your time. Reflect and make YOU a better person. I'm trying to.
ReplyDelete@Kiki & Vanessa yea what is it about Jan? Did I miss the memo? lol. Time & patience is really the key. I agree with you Vanessa. I'm using this time for me "Down time" is what I'm calling it. I think it's important :)
ReplyDelete@Sauniya thank you for doing that. Yes, it'll def. get better. It has to lol.